Also, it seems that about 40% of the men who state they are divorced are actually still going through the process. That stated, I have come up to some heavy objection from both family and friends – hence I’m here.They have given many examples of relationships that began quickly after a separation/break-up, so I am beginning to wonder if I am selling myself short – being too rigid.To keep the relationship -- and yourself -- healthy, it’s important to set boundaries when dating a man going through divorce.Just because a man has separated from his wife doesn’t mean he’s getting divorced.For your relationship to work, he must demonstrate that he’s serious about the divorce by filing the necessary papers, separating finances and property, and moving forward with the divorce process.If he hasn’t, he probably isn’t ready to divorce, which means he isn’t ready for a new relationship.hey I am currently dating a guy that is going through divorce, and believe it or not I think he is the best thing that happened to me.
And it will prove to be a miserable existence for you.
With the "slow it down warning" emblazoned on the relationship, let's look at the possible pitfalls your man presents.
The first question that must be answered is: Why is he getting a divorce and what is the timeline?
I met him after their split, and had nothing to do with the break up.
He tells me all the time he loves me, she's not an issue in his mind anymore, etc. I don't doubt at all that he doesn't love me, I truly believe that he does. I wouldn't advise getting involved with anyone that hasn't been divorced a fair amount of time.