It's not that those things are not important it's just that they send the wrong message to a guy that he will not be a priority to you. also if you want to get a guy don't have stupid pictures of your children or your pets. I can't believe all of these categories women hide behind to justify their fatness.
But while that's true, all of the fat women in my life have at least one story of men explaining to them that they could never date because of her fatness.I have experienced sexual assault and trauma in my life.A lot of fat women have -- the ACE scores study suggest that at least some cases of obesity are biologically related to childhood trauma -- but I don't need you to psychoanalyze me, to explain to me why I'm fat, or to try and "fix" me somehow. I got over guys who wanted to sleep with me but weren't willing to be seen in public with me a long time ago.I don't mind if you tend to date fat girls, or really even if you get some specific pleasure from being with a fat woman -- but I don't need that to be the first thing you tell me about yourself. This comes from guys who don't necessarily have a problem with my weight -- they just have a problem with fat people. " Or worse, "Oh you're so (beautiful, smart, sexy, whatever) for a fat girl…" all I hear is how much you hate fatness. "You're not the kind of lazy, stupid, disgusting, [insert sizeist insult here] slob who I expect fat people to be," is not a compliment.Dudes tend to assume that I haven't dated a lot in my life -- or the opposite, that I'm always up for casual sex because I'm desperate for attention.This is a great idea, because it's easy for us to "like" people, but starting a conversation, now that's scary.there are over 25,000 users with 2,000 new signups every day.also if you want to get a guy don't have stupid pictures of your children or your pets. You mean fat disgusting slobs who eat all day long and do no work.It's not that those things are not important it's just that they send the wrong message to a guy that he will not be a priority to you. Rolls of fat wobbling and swaying and rippling up and down a huge gut and sloppy azz with waves of it pounding against their back. They often come into a relationship believing that my past partners have been abusive or unfaithful, or that my current partner isn't interested in sex and that's why we're poly.Basically, that he's arrived to save me from my terrible, sad, fat life.