Every relationship comprises heartbreaks, mistakes, tongue-in-cheek moments, and misunderstandings.However, there are certain inexcusable aspects in a relationship that are called 'deal breakers'. These are the qualities a man either has or comes with that you can't tolerate in your life.Or conversely, they are qualities a man MUST HAVE in order to date you, such as the same religion or culture.I went to a Valentine’s Day dance for youngish queers with some friends.After a while I noticed that wherever I went, a young woman in a black velvet shirt would pop up nearby. While she wasn’t really the type that would catch my eye if she weren’t such a consistent part of the scenery, I was flattered.
Though more women are vexed by unclean appearance in a date, it’s still a fairly equal — and equally high — percentage of both men and women who are concerned about this issue. Put some effort into your dating routine Being lazy is the second biggest deal-breaker, ranked as being a turn-off for 59.6% of men and 72.1% of women. The fact that this is listed as such an important issue could be due in part to our growing cultural norm of high productivity, which speaks to how you spend your time rather than how much money you make — or even your employment status.Now, let's take a moment and talk about some common Deal Breakers worth thinking about.Take some time to clear your head and really think about the specifics of your Deal Breakers and what each one really means to you.Avoid the top five offenders above by following these tips: 1.Clean up before going out on a date Showing up to meet Mr. Maybe when you’re looking disheveled or sporting an unclean appearance is the worst thing you can do on a date, according to 63.3% of men and 71.3% of women. How can someone be part of a couple if this person’s not fully committed to himself/herself?Most of these deal breakers can be spotted only after the relationship progresses into being a serious one.You can rarely have deal breakers in dating until you have known the person at least for sometime.These are commonest reasons for which guys get dumped. This is the kind of guy who will insist on going for boys night out every weekend and will go for all boys trips even after you get married. It is alright to be with a guy who counts his coins.But if you are with a guy who doesn't tip the waiter and pays less because he did not eat as many potato fries as you, then you better look for other options.study* — the most comprehensive look at single Americans’ attitudes, values and practices. We all know that deal-breakers used to be based on religion, race and other traditional factors, but now, the real deal-breakers are largely found in someone’s personality traits. Garcia, evolutionary biologist with The Kinsey Institute at Indiana University and one of the study’s primary researchers, this new data definitely offers hope for those hoping to make a change in their single status.