By Womans Dating after divorce is not quite the same as when you were young and carefree.Now you're probably a lot wiser about men (thanks to your marriage), you may have children that restrict your free time, and the club-scene may not be quite as inviting as when you were younger.In response to my plea for help, I found some welcome guidance from another mom who has been through this same process.Heidi Goldstein Friedman is a partner at the law firm of Thompson Hine; she is also a mom and stepmom.Friedman also recommends that parents who are newly divorced and dating find a “divorce posse.” She says, “My son, especially, voiced how good he felt when he met other friends whose parents were also divorced.” Dr.
There is no clear-cut rule for this, but as a general guideline, we would recommend waiting at least 6 months from the time you get settled into your new living arrangements before you actively start dating again.
If he's really put off by the idea of you dating a man other than his father, explain that you're making new friends, just like he does when he's in a new situation.
Try to maintain your usual routines with your son so that your dating doesn't disrupt his day-to-day life and he still has lots of time with you.
These feelings may be scary and overwhelming for him.
Talk with your son about how your dating makes him feel.