As her best friend, it's understandable that you want what's best for her, but leave his sexuality out of it. It doesn't mean that they're gay; they are naturally more sensitive, understanding and in tune with emotions. And even if you talked with her, it doesn't mean she would listen to you.
Conversely, making sex the secondary acquisition can also be a home run. After all, if he thinks you're afraid, you probably are, and your sweaty armpit stains will rat you out!
Now what activity would be so out of the box for you, it might put you in a space to meet new guys, make friends with people who have gay friends or try a new hobby? If you really want a guy who appreciates monogamy, then hanging out with people who have open relationships probably isn't the best place to meet Mr. From sex to finances and family to intellectual awareness, letting your true desires show up doesn't make you weak, weird or wacky. The more you make excuses for why your gay dating life is the toilet, the less chance of it shifting in a positive way.
Find your stride, your way, your place and snuggle in.
Posted by Naomi Epps in Black Love Advice How do you feel about Denzel Washington or Will Smith? I know you love to see them together; it’s just that you’re almost always left with a bit of a sour taste in your mouth at the end of each magazine-reading session, right?
Ahh, the thrills you feel when you see them and the secret crush you have had on them since you can remember…You have to admit it, girl. It’s only normal to be longing for someone as funny, smart, sexy and charming as these two talented men.