To a Scorpio, everyone is suspect until proven loyal over the YEARS — not months. It doesn’t matter if you have a noble spirit and a good reputation, a Scorpio will use instinct and silent observation to decide if they can trust you — and by what percentage.Unconditional trust is maybe extended by Scorpio to one or two people in the Scorpio’s entire lifetime. They might also do confirmation checks on things you’ve told them.In other words, it is necessary to explicitly pledge your faithfulness and loyalty before you can be unfaithful or disloyal.Implied exclusiveness in a relationship won’t get you a conviction for cheating.“I’ve been dating a great guy for five months, but I still text back and forth with my ex-boyfriend. ” “There’s this girl at the gym who flirts with me and, yes, sometimes it gets a little risqué.
So, no use wasting time trying to talk your way into Scorpio’s confidence.They morph without warning from one thing into another, assuming a variety of forms such as “just friends,” hanging out, casual dating, broken-up, back together, with each other exclusively, engaged, and so on.Each form has its own rules and expectations, and to complicate matters further, the two people involved may not agree on what kind of relationship they actually have. Even if anyone observing your actions would agree you’re not breaking rules, are you secretly eager to see how the third party responds and what might develop?It's not that women don't do it; it's just that the men do it much more.According to a MSNBC survey, 30% of the men using an online dating service are married. Well…there really is no fool proof method and sadly catching a liar online can be harder than catching the married guy hitting on you at the bar.If you’re checking up on an old boyfriend or girlfriend on Facebook, ask yourself if you’d want your current partner doing the same. What’s the intent behind the interaction Most often the issue of cheating can be boiled down to a single word: motive. The cliché “cheaters never prosper” applies more to relationships than any other context.Since cheating is often a gray area, your best bet is to take a giant step back from the line that serves as the border crossing between trustworthy and untrustworthy behavior.Eva filed for divorce from Tony after finding hundreds of text messages on his cell phone.One has to wonder if Eva and Tony are just more evidence that marriage is becoming obsolete in today's society.(This should not be confused with a Scorpio who is genuinely interested but backs off to ponder and size up a potential mate) This Scorpio man or Scorpio woman might be tantalizing as a hunter but underdeveloped when it comes to forging the intimacy Scorpios crave so much.This kind of Scorpio can either be a heart-breaker that sends you crying to an online forum or a stimulating, harmless diversion that makes you feel beautiful and sexy again.