“I met some nice people, but realistically I went for the hottest girl you could find.” He spent the better part of his 30s going on up to three dates a week, courting 20-something blond models, but eventually realized that dating the prettiest young things had its drawbacks — he found them flighty, selfish and vapid.“Beautiful women who get a fair amount of attention get full of themselves,” he says.It’s what makes them two of the best matchmakers in the business.Their drive, dedication, and persistence are also contributing factors to their success.We will develop personal relationships with them and take it offline. We develop a trust where our clients feel like we are friends of theirs.Also, we make sure that they look like their photos." We show photos of clients to potential matches and vice versa.A lot of services treat it like a blind date, but we only let people go on dates when they know what the other person looks likes. We don’t want to set you up with someone you’re not interested in. If I have a male client interested in meeting women in the fashion world, I go to fashion events.We’re not here to waste your time." "We find our matches in a lot of ways. We are always out at the hottest NYC events, singles events, fashion events, conferences. If I have a doctor looking for another doctor, I might go to a medical conference." Success rates: Success stories: "I was matching this guy who couldn’t get past the first date, if he could even get a first date at all.
It’s like the Spindel women have this sixth sense about people — who they are, where they’ve been, where they’re going, and what they want in life.The men who were judged to be the best-looking had higher rates of divorce.Looking to avoid such a fate, Rochkind started dating a woman who isn’t a bikini model, Carly Spindel, in January 2015. The two met after Spindel’s mother, matchmaker Janis Spindel, scouted Rochkind at a gym.The mother-daughter team, who’ve been doing this for a combined 25 years, is responsible for over 2,100 marriages.With the men as the clients and the women as the members, Janis and Carly focus on serious, boutique-style matchmaking, providing upscale services that help busy, successful, commitment-oriented singles from all over the world find the right person for them.The Short Version: Janis and Carly Spindel are a mother-daughter matchmaking duo with a combined 25 years of experience in the industry.The tenacious and passionate Spindel women offer high-end services for thousands of busy, professional singles who are serious about finding a long-term relationship.When you can hear the voice of your heart, when you update your values and create your formula for dating success, what will your dating experiences and relationships be like then? Twitter.com/Monica Magnetti Contact Monica Goodwin Snell Alisa Goodwin Snell is a dating coach like none other.With sixteen years of experience as a licensed marriage and family therapist, she knows what singles need to do (and not do) to find success (and to avoid disaster).She left her job at Shape Magazine to pursue her dating blog.Carly is a world traveler who has lived in Paris and London. She can usually be found at her favorite café enjoying chocolate mousse while people watching, which is one of her favorite hobbies.